What the fuck is up with men today???

[joeohara]

*the following post contains a drunken rant*

I had a date last nite in fact the first date in fucking months. it started off really well and i was having a great time being loud and gorgeous.

Of course i have the morals of an alley cat and cant be having with all this "no sex on first date" shite, sooooo long story short crazy naked monkey sex ensued blah blah and it was fabulous.

then i get a txt this morning saying "sorry your a lovely guy but your too big" referring to a certain part of my body.

i've had some shitty excuses from guys before but that has got to take the whole fucking biscuit tin.

seriously im just fuming here and im most likely over reacting but sweet jesus what is wrong with men today?????

[redbulljunkie]

"Too big", now that's a new one.

[joeohara]

"Too big", now that's a new one.

Exactly i mean i've had the usual excuses from guys but that one really annoyed me. i mean have things really got that shallow that guys are now turning down potential boyfriends because they happen to be blessed in that area.

i'm not bragging i always thought i was average but i guess i have been proved wrong.

[kevSaMo]

send him a txt back
"there's nothing wrong with the size of my organ,
am just not used to playing in a cathederal."

[admin]

All I can say is that must be the most awful excuse ever!

[kanashimi]

well that beats the one I had last week, being told your too nice seems to be becoming a regular thing for me, maybe I should be more of a bastard [:-?]

[amnesiac]

it started off really well and i was having a great time being loud and gorgeous.


Maybe he meant your personality was too big? Or your voice?

[joeohara]

Maybe he meant your personality was too big? Or your voice?


Or maybe he was just another typical fussy queen that seem to populate the scene these days.

There is nothing wrong with my personality or voice and if the post had been read correctly you would have seen that he was referring to something else.

[joeohara]

well that beats the one I had last week, being told your too nice seems to be becoming a regular thing for me, maybe I should be more of a bastard [:-?]

kanashimi those are the very same queens that sit around and whinge "why cant i meet someone nice" and then when they do meet someone nice they get cold feet and do a runner. its a fear of commitment basically they go for total bastards as they know it has little chance of working out and they can go back to playing the victim.

[spiller]

aw poor joe!! Okay there are many things to complain about but size! I mean come on! you cant do anything about that its not under your control! with me its always the personality more then the body (or size of the organ!) .

[petitchouchou]

Joe my male rant has lasted since I was about 16. There are so many men who seem to not know what they want. Personally I'd never shoot anyone down because they're too big ( I think I would marry them if they were) and it really does sound like a bad excuse. Chin up kid. It can't get any worse [;-)]

[LittleTimmy]

I think joe's not really angry, just a bit boastful! [:-P] Nothing wrong with that Joe, if you've got, it flaunt it![:-))]

[Hunter S]

Joe my male rant has lasted since I was about 16. There are so many men who seem to not know what they want. Personally I'd never shoot anyone down because they're too big ( I think I would marry them if they were) and it really does sound like a bad excuse. Chin up kid. It can't get any worse [;-)]


In fairness i would, there IS such thing as too big, seriously, sorry Joe but sometimes too much meat spoils the sandwich!!![:-P]

[Bootyzilla]

sorry Joe but sometimes too much meat spoils the sandwich!!![:-P]

Only if the bread isn't of a very high quality, dear.

[petitchouchou]

In fairness i would, there IS such thing as too big, seriously, sorry Joe but sometimes too much meat spoils the sandwich!!![:-P]

Honey too big is about perspective. Obviously if lockjaw was the only result then I'd have to decline. But it hasn't happened so far.....[:-D]

[joeohara]

In fairness i would, there IS such thing as too big, seriously, sorry Joe but sometimes too much meat spoils the sandwich!!![:-P]


Hmm an yet he didnt say anything till the day after[:-?] if it really was an issue he should have said something there and then and not left it till the next day. all that has done is reinforce my belief that he was just another fussy time waster.

[Hunter S]

...well it wasnt all bad, at least you got some good lovin!!

[chatelaine]

Maybe he meant your personality was too big? Or your voice?

Saucer of milk for Amnesiac!!! [:-P]

Joe - this is one of those cases where the guy probably [to quote SATC] isn't that into you. And if I'm right and it is, he's probably thought this was a 'nice' way of letting you down. Instead it comes across as just weird but don't worry babe. At least you've still got your [very] big dick to keep you company on these winter nights!

[007]

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[hondaman]

There are very few couples on the scene and I'd like to know why that is. But why are there so few couples on the scene?

[):)] very valid question, thought on this, once loved a guy n think of him often, i panicked a bit and blew my chance, tried to put it right with him but never could, wrote this for him.
say it too.
if to say is to do
what was i to you
surely something you rue
made low made blue.

if to say is to do
you said i feel it to
toghether loves glue
in my eyes only you

if to say is to do
if i ever find you
will i ever see you
now i try to do

if to say is to do
only you a true you
now you i surely rue
today i seek only you.

also the situation may be that both guys just want sex,which is i find cold and leaves a feeling of being just meat, wrote this about such a situation.

anonymous
met on a dark night
print and voice on a phone
not liking your sight
should have left alone
any port in a storm they say
then toghether ok
certainly no love machien
should never have been
never reved up never left green
good riddence face half seen
what a way to live a life is wrote
one hell of a bad note.

the answer? probably blowing in the wind???

[LittleTimmy]

There are very few couples on the scene and I'd like to know why that is. But why are there so few couples on the scene?

Couples tend to stay off the scene to a large extent in my experience. I know more gay couples almost than gay singles, and most are not really into the scene (if you regard the scene as the pubs and clubs) though most are active in the gay community in some other sense.

I remember an article on this very website when I joined about 2.5 years ago entitled "The mystery of the paired up pufters" which alluded to what you are asking Fruit1985. Utterly infuriating title.

[LovePuppy]

Here ya go Booty....Men's Long-Term Mating Strategy (http://66.102.9.104/search?q=cache:uhkOm3diFrgJ:www2.hawaii.edu/~lieberma/download/psych_352/352lecture12.ppt+men+prefer+women+with+big+hips&hl=en)

[Swimmy]

Well I always think sex is just part of a relationship.....you cannot build a soild realtionship with someone with just bricks...mortar is also required....[;-)]

You are right in what you say Fruit1985, it is so superficial and to be honest it doesn't interest me.....if the scene is that small and people are having one-nighters with everyone then it must be virtually incestuous!

Intelligence, wit, charm, manners, and all round goodness and badness are difficult to decipher in a night club. Yes they are fun places...especially after a drink or two...but they are not the easiest place to find the nice guys. They are either there hiding or at home....like a needle in a haystack...one just has to keep looking![:-D]

[Harry Bo]

Well I always think sex is just part of a relationship.....you cannot build a soild realtionship with someone with just bricks...mortar is also required....[;-)]

Well said Swimmy.....

I can manage the Bricks thing and even have plenty of Mortar to go with them....

Only problem is im shite at brick laying.... always all over the place and never as sturdy as it should be!

Harry Bo
Building Supplies LTD

[Swimmy]

I can manage the Bricks thing and even have plenty of Mortar to go with them....

Only problem is im shite at brick laying.... always all over the place and never as sturdy as it should be!


Well practise makes perfect....nobody was born a bricklayer![;-)]

[Bootyzilla]

Here ya go Booty....Men's Long-Term Mating Strategy (http://66.102.9.104/search?q=cache:uhkOm3diFrgJ:www2.hawaii.edu/~lieberma/download/psych_352/352lecture12.ppt+men+prefer+women+with+big+hips&hl=en)

What is that and why are you showing it to me? I can't make any sense of it at all!

[wally]

What is that and why are you showing it to me? I can't make any sense of it at all!

Thank you for asking that Booty. I was wondering was it just me that didn't get it [:-?]

[Fordum]

While i find his excuse highly suspect, at least you got to meet him and enjoy it for aslong as it lasted! I have found that honesty is a barrier to me even meeting a guy at this point in time, but im not going to go down the liar route, i have come across a few of them in the past. I just wonder sometimes!