Hi, Just hit 50. Kinda came out at 40 to a few people but never finished the job. Have set this right by telling all the people who matter to me over the last month. Of course big regrets now and cant understand what what the big deal with me. The big change for me was coming into contact with the Gay Bear scene on the Costa last year. Also have been to London at XXL and some great bars. Just came into contact with people like myself. Like a pint. A game of hurling etc. As said have had the chats with people and most all ok and those that could not hack it it was time to say goodbye. My question? Cork is a great but small city. Is there places mature gay men go or meet up for a pint. I know there is a club but just the same as a straight club I dont want to be the sad older guy with a load of kids Lol. My fav type of bar. Young and older. Gay and straight all in same place. Please help as cant go to afford to go to London every week Lol.