How important is sex when it comes to love?

Sex can be both even while in a relationship.

I much rather have sex in a relationship, not into sleeping around, never have being.
Tried it - wish I could do it more - can't really. Feel like shit after wards. I wish I could be more slutty and heartless at times It would make things much easier wouldn't it?

No I meant that sometimes in a relationship that sometimes sex is just sex, it's not making love and there's nothing wrong with that either!

Really? Sex is just sex in a relationship? God I would hate that. If I'm in a relationship - I want to make love, not just sex

No sometimes you're angry with your partner, or sometimes it's all about him, or sometimes it's all about you, or sometimes you're both just very horny.
Sometimes it's not about the fact that you love each other. Alot of the time it is. Most of the time it is. But sometimes it's really really not.

To quote SATC "It's just like a race to orgasm"

You are shattering my illusions I'm sticking with my Barbara Cartland romance type stuff

I'm a romantic!

So am I!!!! it's shit

In my previous relationship I never EVER felt like that...Id feel terrible if It was just for the sex...

but that was then....

but thats me and Im a conservative dried up old queen now so there ya go..

Stop robbing my title!!!!!! you can be conservative dried up baby queen ok???

NO...seeing as I am back in the county I am reclaiming my title as brat prince

Remember you gave you that God damn title!!!!! ............mutter mutter mutter

Slightly graphic but the top-bottom thing also comes into play here sometimes.

What if the one you liked was 100% top (for example)? Would you tolerate it?

If I really loved someone, I would ''tolerate'' it. I would NOT 'tolerate' it from a casual pick up though.

If I loved them..yes every so often

There is one 'sex position' I have NEVER done and am NEVER going to do.....except with one person. Made that decision many years ago

Oh the intrigue!

I'm telling you boy JB Fletcher wouldn't get that piece of info out of me

I don't know who that is but ok!

...Why though?! What's so intimate about this position haha