What was your most embarrassing gay moment? Mine was accidently "growling" (no other word describes it) at someone in a changing room in bishopstown 3 years ago cos I thought they were gorgeous. I had intended to growl silently in my head (as was my custom at the time) and for some reason it was produced at an extremely audible level. The entire place heard it, everyone looked at me and I went puce from the waist up . I got my coat and quickly left. I have had others but that was the worst.