Ok Ok before i start I just want to point out that I am not giving out about the people in cork its just that I am trying to understand how you people tick.... Ok the back story is that I went to college in Cork..It was a great city to go to college, brilliant students, lots to do etc. You have some off the best "straight" pubs in the whole country (I have lived everywhere and sampled a lot of pubs!) and some of the nicest, most down to earth people ever created but when it comes to the gay community it gets wierd.. right this is my main problem with the gay nightclubs and pubs is that nobody talks to anyone else...really its seems to me like everyone is in groups and stick to themselves..feel free to disagree. I dont think I have every had a good night out on the gay scene...I am wondering is it just me...or I standoffish or what. Is it because I am not good looking to cork people, or do I look like the most boring person alive...In fairness when I would go out in the gay scene in Cork I wouldn't talk to much to other people because I wouldn't get that "feeling"..you know like when you just know someone wants to talk...I hope that makes sense..I have traveled all round the world and in every single gay club/pub I would go in and within a couple of minutes you would be chatting away and having a laugh..it even happens in Dublin and Galway so I dont think it is and Irish thing, just a Cork thing. I would just like to know am I mad in the head? I have made some incredible friends in Cork over the years(95% straight unfortunitly) and i use to love the place but now i feel my time there is over... I would love people to say its all in my head and give Cork another go etc but I dont think it will work....Like can the rest of you see what I mean and are you sick of it too???