I don't think I'd be able to be in an open relationship. If in a relationship with someone, I want me to be enough for them. It just screams to me that someone isn't able to commit. Wouldn't be able to put up with the constant wondering about who the other person had been with and wondering why I wasn't enough. Couldn't cheat on someone either, or forgive someone for cheating. (However, having said that, it really depends on thoughts at the actual time, can't state that it would never, never happen)
I think we can have more than one 'soul mate' in our life, actually I know it for a fact. If you are meant to meet them you will.
What if you think you have a soulmate and then he suddenly stops acting like one? I'm confused about the soul mates and similar stuff.. I don't believe this thing can last for long.
a soul mate is someone who (in my experience) you think about every second of every day..who you yearn to be with at all times..someone who..when you have to go away after seeing them..you feel physically sick..someone who with one word/touch/look can make everything alright again no matter how bad it is, someone who makes the sun brighter and the grass greener..even when they arent there..someone who makes you want to be a better person..someone who no matter what happens..you love unconditionally ..someone who makes you the most confident guy in the world..simply for the fact that you know that even if everything goes wrong..you will always have them..someone who makes you so proud that you walk around like you own the place..and you feel a million dollars being in public with them....someone that feels like that about you too..thats my idea of a soulmate..thats what I had.
I don't know if I believe in soulmates. I thought I found her but turned out to be wrong but I'm not sure how much better anything else with someone else could be so I guess I'm not sure.
ah jez ye are all being so honest and nice today I think to be honest there can be possibly more than one in yer life but I'm not sure, how falcon described it was lovely.
1.If you have found your soul mate he won't ever stop acting like one 2.Don't be confused - Believe it - if it's real it will last Don't confuse 'like', 'infatuation' or 'lust' with True Love
Maybe somebody is your soulmate for a certain amount of time, and then you go on to have others. I don't know if I believe in soul mates, but I like the idea of having "great loves*" and only having a few of them in your lifetime. *courtesy of Charlotte York
That's what I think more or less CM. I always believed in Soul mates. I wanted one man - only one - only one to ever sleep with and fall madly in love with just like a Fairy Tale. God almighty I'm obsessed with Gothic Romance/Wuthering Heights/Romeo & Juliet/Gone with the Wind and all that Barbara Cartland type stuff. I could very easily turn into a Miss Havisham type character mourning her long lost love. NO ONE does that better than me..... but f**k that. Life is for living not rotting. The longer I have lived the more I learn that there will be a few very special 'great loves' in your life. I really believe that. When you meet one hold onto him/her. They could be the one who'll last forever
Sometimes I think the gays are at a disadvantage. I know some people come out at like 12 years old and fair play to them, but most people just don't have a lot of relationship experience during the teen years. They don't get that awkward "Willyameetmyfriend" exposure out of the way. I think it adversely affects relationships in the 20s as people are trying to play catch up.
We do tend to relive our tortured adolescents at a much later stage than our heterosexual counterparts.
